Author: David Musser

  • Christmas in…December?? (And Other Reflections on THREE Years of Caregiving (!!))

    Y’all. It finally happened. Christmas in JulyDecember! Today was the day that we finally had our Sleep Safe Bed delivered! (after months of back and forth with insurances, social workers, providers, medical supply applications, medical supply personnel, decisions—endless phone calls (ie, waiting on hold, listening through queue after queue of not-actually-helpful robot answering services)—endless rigmarole…

  • Waiting…

    It is one of those wet and dreary, grey autumn days. The kind of day that makes you want to curl up under a woolly knit blanket, sip on some Earl Grey tea, listen to Bon Iver, and attend to the rain and wind outside the window. Maybe it’s the changing of the season that…

  • Stillness

    So, when was the last time you sat and flipped through an entire Where’s Waldo? book—finding Waldo, Wenda, Woof, Wizard Whitebeard, and Odlaw on each page before continuing on through the book? (Ok, Fine, we didn’t always find Odlaw…that sneaky little mustachioed devil…). I am guessing for most of you, it has been at least…

  • By ‘n’ By [Hard Times Comes A-Knocking At The Door]

    Well Folks, we are back in the Bluegrass! It is sorta strange being back somewhere so familiar after being away for 8 years. A whole lot has changed and a whole lot has stayed exactly the same! Eliana was coloring a picture recently and made the entire background blue with a horizontal “horizon” line across…

  • The War Within

    [full disclosure, I started this post over a week ago, so I hope you can track with me despite my publishing delay!] Wow. Since I last checked in with you all, the entire month of December 2023 has come and gone. Highlights: Lowlights: I think you could make a case that this was the hardest…

  • Bone Scans and Dad Hacks

    Well, in the month since my last post: Izzie spent a week in the children’s hospital fighting an upper respiratory virus, Katie traveled to a conference in Kentucky for several days, we celebrated Izzie’s 2nd birthday (!!), we hosted some family over the week of Thanksgiving (my highlight was watching the new Ninja Turtles movie…

  • What Caregiving Feels Like…

    Have you ever run a marathon? I hope your answer is a forceful: NOPE! Or just a good ole fashioned thumbs-down would also be an appropriate response. (Need I remind runners everywhere that the first guy to ever run a marathon died immediately afterward?!) Marathons are famously 26.2 miles. While I technically have never run…

  • Introduction

    Let me open this introduction by clarifying a few points and setting your expectations at an appropriately low level. If you have made it this far into my blog, it is quite possible that you do not know who I am (except for you—Hi, Mom!). You could be reading these words from anywhere on the…